The man of your dreams has romantically proposed, of course you say yes! You rush to tell family and friends, you excitedly set the date, life is good… next comes the wedding planning, juggling your time and money, ploughing through endless to do lists, politely rising above interfering friends and family and resisting the will to throw or break something when your car driver carelessly double books and cancels one week before the date.
Miraculously you kept on track, you kept your sanity and the day is set to be perfect! But what’s that? The niggling anxiety that surely something will go wrong, something will be forgotten, broken – disaster will strike! Never fear, we have a few answers to the most common worries and problems a bride faces.
I think that we can all agree that the biggest issue if it were to happen is ‘no- show’ of your groom.
Your beloved, of course he will show! – Relax, he did ask you after all, and he hasn’t ran for the hills during the whole stress of planning the day, even when maybe once or twice bridezilla surfaced. He’s in for the long haul and cannot wait to make you his better half!
*It’s definitely recommend that you make it clear to the ‘best mate’ to not whisk the stags off too ‘pre-wedding’ at least a week before is safe, a hung-over groom, a groom in a jail cell or a groom in another country would not be wedding bliss!
Your bridesmaids – your best friends, and perhaps the cousin you’ve not seen since you were 5? They are your rocks, they are also your squat team, use them, keep them focused (and never more drunk than yourself), they can deal with any stresses on your behalf leaving you free to enjoy and experience your day.
* We recommend that you give at least two of your bridesmaids an emergency recovery kit to keep in there bags, consisting of useful bits to combat any unplanned predicaments; nail varnish to double whammy chipped nails and ladders in stockings! Hairspray to keep your locks looking no less than perfection, a sewing kit to be prepared for any snags or tears, wipes to remove any stains, makeup for vital touch ups and perfume to keep you smelling sweet.
Good company – Surround yourself with it, enjoy the ride, benefit all of the details that you put into place during your planning. Laugh, catch up with relatives, enjoy being a newly wed, laugh at the speeches, enjoy the food, drink your champagne, dance at your disco and enjoy the simple fact that all of your hard work has paid off, each and every one of your guests have come to celebrate the union of you and your new husband.
The after thoughts-
The day after can be a strange feeling – it’s all over, no more planning – what on earth will you do with your time? well actually its not over yet, first your honeymoon, then your present opening and thank-you cards, your name changing forms, wedding albums…
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