Questions are the most amazing things that we can come up with when we want to learn about someone else.
Dale Carnegie in his timeless bestselling book, “How to win friends and influence people” talks about the benefit of asking interesting questions to show that we are interested in someone else.
Have you been to a party and been the one asking all the questions and doing all the listening? If you have, you will probably agree that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting. You probably did less that 20% of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!
If you’re a guy and ask a lady some great questions, you will often find yourself leap-frogging to final base, saving a lot of time and energy trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and really listening to what a person says is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do with anyone.
If you’re a woman and want to stroke a guy’s ego and make him feel super good and wanted, then just ask him lots of questions and then really listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a dangling string in seconds!
Despite the ego-focused side of asking and listening there is a genuine side as well. Because the people who are genuinely interested in someone else and ask great questions are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here’s 21 questions to ask a guy or girl to get conversation moving along. They have been written from a female perspective, however just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions – which are always better.
Here’s 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl to get you started
1. If you’re a waiter and a customer was super rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or think about doing this?
2. What was your favourite cartoon character as a kid and why did you enjoy them?
3. If you could choose to have dinner with 5 people (real of fictional) who would you invite and why?
4. If you could suddenly become the invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?
5. If someone made a funny comedy movie about your life, which part of the story would be the funniest and why?
6. What was your fondest television character when you were a young child? What was it that you liked about them?
7. If there was something that you missed doing in this lifetime what was it?
8. What’s the most way-out experience you’ve had in your whole life?
9. Have you ever gone on a date with a person who is so way smaller or taller than you, and if so how did you get on kissing?
10. How old were you when you had your first proper date and did you kiss them?
11. What’s the most horrible lie you have ever told someone in your life? Where you caught out and who was it that you told it to?
12. If you instantly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?
13. If you do not like someone do you show it or pretend that you like them?
14. Which do you prefer the most in a woman – intelligence, a good body or good looks?
Time to get a little more personal!
15. Have you ever had sex in a public place? If so were you seen?
16. What’s the difference between sex and making love and which do you prefer?
17. If you could suddenly change the age you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What’s your biggest sexual ‘turn-ons’ and ‘turn-offs’?
19. Have you ever cheated on your partner? Did they ever find out? If so, what happened?
20. Has anyone ever caught you playing with yourself? If they did what did you do?
21. Have you ever had sex with more than one woman at a time?
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